LIFE ON NEW EARTH (Destructive habits)
Greetings, my dear beloved children!
Today I would like to move on to the fourth point of the Plan of actions for your prompt passing the stages of your spiritual road.
Well, you have already stopped watching or listening to the mainstream media, worked through your fears having forced them out of your conscience and subconscience, learnt to protect your energy space from external influence and mastered the principles of communication with different people.
But, of course, my dear, you should understand that the process of your improvement is endless therefore you should always watch over yourself, treat yourself mindfully because you will have to withstand “durability tests” over and over again that will be arranged for you by your nearest and dearest.
So now it is time to talk about your energy space protection not from external influence but from you yourself – that is, your Ego and habits you have gained over years.
And it is perhaps the stumbling stone for many of you on your spiritual way.
Why is it so hard for you to get rid of your bad habits?
Before all, because you do not notice them as they have already turned into your second nature.
Let us cite, for example, the habit of taking care of your close people, which from the third dimension world person’s point of view is considered to be a wonderful quality.
Well, what hides behind this seemingly good habit?
Many people and especially women are got so used to exercising control over their family that they even do not take any notice of it.
As a result, the following processes occur at the energy level.
Striving to know everything about each step of their son or daughter, husband or wife, their parents, friends or colleagues such people are always within their field impudently intruding into other person’s energy space.
And even if the purpose of such intrusion is care and desire to help them, save from something, make their life easier, nevertheless, this is the violence of the Law of the Free Will.
And here is a reason for this.
It seems to these people that it is them who know what and how others should do, what will be better for them, healthier, safer, more beneficial…
As a result, there is suppression of the personality of the one who is always attempted to help, having no chances to make decisions independently and get one’s own experience.
For even if the experience will be negative, it will be one’s own one, not somebody else’s.
Moreover, in such relationships there is unceasing energy interaction, which leads to rather regrettable consequences since it means depersonalization of the one whose emotions, thoughts and actions are always controlled.
One’s energy space becomes a permanent residence for somebody else’s energy and, which is even more regrettable, somebody else’s karma.
So, for example, if one is destined to successfully implement the plan conceived and somebody in one’s environment relying on their own experience opposes it, the whole scenario of one’s life will take the wrong turn – not the one the person was destined to.
Unfortunately, in the third dimension world it happens quite often.
For instance, parents often choose a career for their children, spouses, country to live in, accommodation and many more being guided by the best considerations from their point of view but actually ruining their life.
Why have I cited just this example?
Because it is the case that allows to understand perfectly well the motives of actions of both those who intervene into another person’s destiny and those who accept such “help”.
This is the case of “cross-influence” on each other and at the same time the influence of a person’s inner qualities on themselves and, consequently, on their spiritual progress.
Thus, a “patron” or “supervisor” constantly imposing their opinion on another person supports their Ego and pride, while the one who submits shows lack of strength and confidence in oneself.
As a result, both of them violate the Law of the Free Will: the former by imposing their will on the other, while the latter one by being afraid of showing it.
And, generally speaking, both the former and the latter are guided by Fear in its different manifestations.
The former person features the fear of losing control over close people, and the latter one – the fear of making independent decisions.
As you see, my dear, any negative energy or unbalanced thought is based on Fear that breeds lack of belief in oneself and people around, which, in the long run, leads to negative consequences.
Here we will stop for today.
Loving you endlessly,
Father-Absolute spoke to you
Channeled by Marta on May 29, 2021.